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		<title>Day 4: Prosperity Coaching</title>
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Listen to  &#8216;Certified Prosperity Guides&#8217; help experimenters mold their definitions of prosperity.
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Hello Dear Ones!
First, I want you all to know how much you inspire and amaze me. I was just reviewing some of the posts from all of you and I got a bit teary.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Special Audios:</strong></p>
<p><strong>Listen to  &#8216;Certified Prosperity Guides&#8217; help experimenters mold their definitions of prosperity.</strong></p>
<p><strong>You can listen to the recordings here: </strong><a href="http://www.choosingprosperity.com/experimentplus.htm" target="_blank">http://www.choosingprosperity.com/experimentplus.htm</a></p>
<p>Hello Dear Ones!</p>
<p>First, I want you all to know how much you inspire and amaze me. I was just reviewing some of the posts from all of you and I got a bit teary.</p>
<p>The clear, un-diluted, un-compromising energy behind the posts touched me in a very deep place.</p>
<p><strong>Note: If you haven&#8217;t read your fellow experimenter&#8217;s posts, visit the comments connected to our previous posts. At the top right of each post by me there is a link to read &#8216;comments&#8217; by other readers. Be sure to do so as the contributed wisdom is the best part of the experiment.</strong></p>
<p>Today, Day 4, I promised you that we&#8217;d be coaching you to greater energetic alignment with your definitions of &#8216;prosperity.&#8217;</p>
<p>As we stated yesterday, you&#8217;ve all listened to prosperity &#8216;talk&#8217; for decades, and now you are ready to shift some energy!</p>
<p>So, for starters, I want you to grab your personal definition of prosperity (Inspired Action Day 1) and review it for a moment.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t just &#8216;read&#8217; it&#8230;&#8217;feel&#8217; it.</p>
<p>How does reading this make you &#8216;FEEL&#8217;?</p>
<p>You see, prosperity has everything to do with what you&#8217;re feeling.</p>
<p>The Universe/ Law of Attraction / The &#8216;Secret&#8217; operate on energetic frequencies and your point of prosperity attraction is directly correlated with how you are &#8216;feeling&#8217; at any moment.</p>
<p>And your definition of &#8216;prosperity&#8217; is something that will either inspire you to create exactly what you want or leave you feeling painfully diminished because it seems so out of reach.</p>
<p>Here are some typical ways that people mis-create in their quest for &#8216;prosperity&#8217;&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>I. Limited to the &#8216;Bucks&#8217;</strong></p>
<p>If your definition of prosperity is solely about money, you may achieve your monetary goals without ever having a fleeting experience of &#8216;prosperity&#8217;.</p>
<p>In one telephone survey, 275 people in the San Francisco Bay area were asked if they believed that they would be significantly happier and more loving if they had a million dollars. Seventy-six percent of the respondents replied, &#8216;Yes. Absolutely.&#8217; Then the research company contacted ten millionaires, and asked them, &#8216;Did making your first million dollars make you a happier or more loving person?&#8217; The response was unanimous: &#8216;No.&#8217; (from Dan Millman&#8217;s Manage Your Money: Sufficiency and Spiritual Practice)</p>
<p>So, if your definition was primarily about having acquisitions, we&#8217;d love to have you add to that, &#8217;so that I can enjoy my life to the fullest.&#8217;</p>
<p><strong>II. All about the &#8216;Others&#8217;</strong></p>
<p>Conversely &#8211; if your definition of prosperity is limited in focus as to how much you&#8217;ll be able to do for others, your definition may not serve you as well as it could.</p>
<p>Instead of getting trapped in the duality of &#8217;selfish&#8217; or &#8217;self-less,&#8217; why not try the concept of &#8217;self-full&#8217; on for a change.</p>
<p>As we are reminded every time we get on a plane, &#8216;if you are with a child and the oxygen masks descend, first put your own mask on before seeking to help others.&#8217;</p>
<p>The same is true of prosperity.</p>
<p>We must first be an energetic match to drawing the prosperity in before we can create the foundations that will enable us to effectively circulate our good.</p>
<p>If your definition of prosperity has been about giving it all away, consider the multitude of ways in which your personal abundance might inspire others to live more &#8216;generously&#8217; and &#8217;self-fully&#8217; simultaneously.</p>
<p><strong>III. Outside-In</strong></p>
<p>If your definition of prosperity is based on a list of things that need to change/resolve or improve before you can feel prosperous, your definition is not serving you as well as it could.</p>
<p>For example, if prosperity means: &#8216;having X number of dollars show up so that I can finally be the person I truly want to be&#8217; we&#8217;d like to have you turn that around and define prosperity as: giving myself permission to be who I truly want to be under any and all conditions.</p>
<p><strong>IV. Futurizing</strong></p>
<p>If your definition of prosperity is future-focused (as in according to your definition you could not legitimately feel &#8216;prosperous&#8217; today) it is not serving you as well as it could.</p>
<p>When you &#8216;futurize,&#8217; you reinforce the gap between where you are and where you want to be. In effect, you keep that gap alive (sort of like holding a carrot and stick always just ahead of the poor horse.)</p>
<p>If your definition of prosperity limits you from feeling prosperous until &#8216;x&#8217; happiness, we&#8217;d like to have you turn that around with a definition that focused upon accepting (and, hopefully celebrating) the present while having hopeful expectations about the future.</p>
<p><strong>V. Coming from lack or ‘againstness’</strong></p>
<p>If your definition of prosperity is coming from lack or &#8216;againstness&#8217; it is not serving you as well as it could.<br />
As whatever we &#8216;resist persists,&#8217; we&#8217;ll find ourselves moving more deeply into the mud and muck if our definition of prosperity is based in lack or ‘againstness’.</p>
<p>If, for example, your definition of prosperity revolves around &#8216;getting rid of debt,&#8217; of &#8216;being free of an unpleasant relationship&#8217; or &#8216;never having to work&#8217; we&#8217;d like you to turn it around so that your focus becomes &#8216;an abundance of resources,&#8217; &#8216;fulfilling work&#8217; and/or &#8216;relationships that nurture and inspire you.&#8217;</p>
<p><strong>VI. Feels &#8216;inspiring&#8217; vs. feeling &#8216;frustrated&#8217;</strong></p>
<p>Finally, if your definition of prosperity makes you feel: excited, inspired, empowered, connected, free, loving and abundant &#8211; it&#8217;s a keeper!</p>
<p>Anything less than a set of feelings like the ones above, and we&#8217;d suggest that you go back to the drawing board!</p>
<p><strong>Inspiring Definitions</strong></p>
<p>So what does an empowering and magnetic definition of prosperity look and feel like?</p>
<p>Webster&#8217;s New World Dictionary defines prosperity in the following way: &#8220;to flourish, to grow vigorously, succeed, thrive, to be at the peak of development, peak of activity, peak of influence, etc.&#8221;</p>
<p>Just reading that jazzes me!</p>
<p>It includes many of the points that I encourage my personal clients to include in their own definitions of prosperity:</p>
<p>~ Do include and go beyond financial accumulation (as there is no point in being rich but not happy.)</p>
<p>~ Do focus on &#8216;being&#8217; instead of &#8216;having&#8217;</p>
<p>~ Do focus on the way you want to feel (about life, about future possibilities, about your Self)</p>
<p>~ Do define &#8216;prosperity&#8217; expansively &#8211; possibly including: enhancing experiences in careers, in intimate relationships, with family, with creativity and adventures.</p>
<p>When you trace back to the root of the word prosperity you find the verb &#8216;to prosper.&#8217; Then it becomes absolutely clear that we need to be talking about the way you intend to experience life rather than having prosperity be a tool for external measure.</p>
<p>When you create your own definition of prosperity, you become very clear about what you intend to draw forth from life!</p>
<p>So, are you ready to create prosperity &#8212; from the inside-out?</p>
<p><strong>Let us know what you gleaned from this post&#8230;</strong></p>
<p><strong>At the top right of each post by me there is a link to read &#8216;comments&#8217; by other readers. This is the place to read and share. Be sure to do so as the contributed wisdom is the best part of the Blog.</strong></p>
<p>PS. This Sunday evening marks the beginning of a the first 2-week trial of the Prosperity Partnership Program this fall.</p>
<p>Follow this link to learn more about how we&#8217;ve created this trial experience so that you can judge the benefits for yourself:<a href="http://www.choosingprosperity.com/ppp.htm" target="_blank"> http://www.choosingprosperity.com/ppp.htm</a></p>
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